Massage Parlours?
I go to college and we've been given an essay to write in one of my lessons. Im studying with adults and as adults we know what happens in massage parlours etc. Im asking for the publics honest views on this. What do you think of men who visit the parlours for sexual activities and also, what do you think about the females who provide the service? Bearing in mind that its not a career many choose to do, alot of them (as i have found out through research) feel they have no other option to earn a decent wage. IE they have no qualifications, single parents etc. Cant wait to read any replies. What would be absolutly fantastic is if there IS ANYONE who reads this ... works at a parlour? you could send me a message via yahoo messenger ( stephy_2004uk) if you did not want to be open about the kind of work you do. Many Thanks Steph Also (sorry forgot to add) Any males who go to massage parlours - would be good to hear from you too. All usernames will be kept private. Just send me a message on yahoo messenger with this yahoo ID.
Public Comments
- You ought to get out and do some proper field research. Maybe that way you could get more of an insight in to the professional service the masseur ladies provide. Great actresses - honest service.
- I used to own a "Stripper-Gram" company a while back (we'd send out nude girls and guys to bachelor and bachelorette parties), we didn't allow any form of prostitution to go on or anything like that but, we would hear about it and ended up firing girls and guys for it. What I found out about it, is that most of the time it's not about simply not having the choices of earning a decent wage; it's more about being around that type of community. Most of the people that I caught doing that could have easily went out and made good money with a good job, and some of them even had Master's degrees. If they're around that type of situation all the time, where they can just give it up, easily, and make alot of money, the temptation usually gets the best of them. What it's more about is the temptation of being able to make quick money (I don't like to use the word lazy, because that usually puts people on the defense, but that is the best word to describe it). For others, it's simply the fact of liking it, the taboo of it, some people get turned on with that, and like that type of attention given to them, especially the girls. Another factor is drugs too, when they're all messed up on drugs, and they need money quick so they can go out and buy more, instead of having to go out and wait for a paycheck, they'd rather spend an hour, make a good amount of money, and get what they need. That reason can be put into rent too... If they're not budgeting their money right, and spending more than they take in, like say on driving a mercedes instead of a honda, so they can have a better car than their friends, they'll do this too. Some of them will have a great job, but they want a luxury lifestyle, and can't keep up with their bills, so when bill paying time comes around, they want to make "quick" cash. I'm not sure if this helps out, but, I hope it did. P.S. I just woke up, so I hope that made sense.
- ok..i have never been a working girl but have been 'the maid'. the woman who answers the phone, takes the money, shows the guys the door..or not!!! and i personally could never have sex with someone for money but can understand why some women (and men) feel driven to this..easy way of quick money...however for full sex where i worked in brighton each girl only got £20 for sex...most of them were illegal immigrants and far from stupid..alot were drug addicts..they made up the majority and were always willing to go 'bareback'..ie. no condom..even for anal...std's were everywhere..by now there must be far more as this was 5 years plus ago..i never want anyone to pity me but did feel that sentiment for the girls..they were and still are used and abused in some horrific ways..'freelance' prostitution brings in more money..no pimps..no palours..a hell of alot more danger of course..one girl was thrown from a 5th floor flat...died of her injuries...i have alot more to say on this matter as i have lost friends due to the evilness this trade brings about..or maybe some kind of positive and supportive governmental legislation is the answer..dunno but it needs to change before another one bites the dust or inadvertantly passes on a nasty std to a family man who then passes it on to his wife and/or kids...do not judge...these are people with feelings...they simply see no other way out...i truly wish there was..the human race would be far more human for it!!!..get back to me if you want to know more..there is alot more..more than you could ever imagine
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